av been with my boyfriend 3 years but eneded our relationship last weekend and left him and went to stay with my dad. i was just sick of doing all the work. if we ever went on dates it was always me having to plan it everytime if i didn't mentioned going out or book the table we wouldn't go out. every birthday, celebration or holiday i always had to plan or it wouldn't happen. i did everything for him , supported him through everything when it was something important to him i would try my best to make sure it happend. but god forbid when i want a bit of support or something important to me. he dosent give a shit. after reminding him all month about something important to me at the last mintute when its too late to do it he says it slipped his mind and it was my fault beacuse i should of booked it beacuse i should of known he wasent going to despite him telling me he would repeatly. even when i was packing and telling him i was leaving he just laughed and told me i would be back. heartbroken but i guess he neevr really cared
Most Helpful Guy
It sounds like you should have either worked on the relationship or ended it LONG AGO, and that you stayed in it way too long (assuming he wasn't willing to work on the relationship). Relationships require WORK, from BOTH parties, on a regular basis. Obviously everyone is going to go through bad periods in their life, where their partner may have to carry more of the load for a while, but normally that levels back out. But on-going indifference means he wasn't invested in the relationship, and that should have been a deal-breaker much, much earlier on.
The lesson you need to learn here is not to be in denial when there is a major problem with your relationship. Problems in relationships need to be addressed quickly, and if they aren't resolved in a meaningful way, especially at your age, you need to end it.
Most guys your age frankly aren't looking for serious, committed, long-term relationships - guys today tend not to be ready for that until their late 20s or early 30s. Thus, I'm not shocked that it didn't work out or that he wasn't overly committed to the relationship. But if a relationship is important to you, you need to make sure it's important to the guy too - even if that means you need to date older guys who are ready for a real relationship.0
Most Helpful Girl
He didn't care... so he's not really a boyfriend. Just a waste of space in your heart and of your time.0