I'm so curious to see the dumper's point of view. How would you feel after breaking up with someone you once loved and realising you'd cause upset for that person? Would you feel relieved to be separated and able to move on? Or does it haunt you? What is NC period like for a dumper?
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It can definitely make you feel that way, for sure. Even if you don't reciprocate the same feelings toward the other person anymore, your brain doesn't know the difference. It still craves the attention and affection you used to get, which makes it hard to be apart. You basically took one of its most important sources of oxytocin away and now it's all like "whaaaat? How do I replace this now?"1