Most Helpful Guy
Well, if you have made up your mind, can't stop ya. it would also be nice to know WHY you want to... some things can be fixed rather than going extreme. but if you are hell-bent on splitting... please don't say "... its not you, its me"... just start with the reason why... and he'll get the hint before you deliver the "punch" line...
I've had a girl break up with me with no info at all... still bugs me till today.
there's no nice way to break up with someone... the least you can do is explain why.
Most Helpful Girl
If he's really into you then he's going to be upset no matter how you say it. It's best to just be blunt and honest. Just tell him that you think it's not working out, give him your honest reason why, and say that you think it's best to end the relationship. You should prepare yourself for him to be upset because he probably will be. Unfortunately, that's just the reality of breaking up with someone. If you aren't happy though and feel like it's not going anywhere though then you have to do it. It would be unfair to him to keep staying with him when you don't feel the same about him.