We've only dated about a month before making it official. We made it official in February. I don't really feel like getting into detail about WHY, it's just that I have to. I haven't seen him in two weeks and he really wants to see me today and I've been giving him non-verbal cues but I refused to tell him through a text or over the phone because I felt like that was low. I'm afraid of telling him in person because I don't know how he'd react. I don't want to just surprise him today like 'oh I want to break up with you' and have him upset. Honestly, I need some advice. How do I go about it? Please don't ask me why I want to break up with him or convince me to stay. I already made up my mind. I just need help about how I should go about it.
Most Helpful Guy
Well, if you have made up your mind, can't stop ya. it would also be nice to know WHY you want to... some things can be fixed rather than going extreme. but if you are hell-bent on splitting... please don't say "... its not you, its me"... just start with the reason why... and he'll get the hint before you deliver the "punch" line...
I've had a girl break up with me with no info at all... still bugs me till today.
there's no nice way to break up with someone... the least you can do is explain why.0
Most Helpful Girl
You should say it in a way thats not like "oh hey im dumping u bye bye " nooo instead just relax & tell him ur not ready for a relationship rn & that you would love for y'all two to be friends, he'll understand1