Most Helpful Guy
You sound exactly like my ex girlfriend. She felt the exact same way you currently do. I never thought she would get over me and eventually she did. and this is how..
New guys popped into her life. She started to talk to other people. Eventually she did things with them. and went on dates and now she has no feelings for me. You need someone else to take your mind off him otherwise it's going to take much longer to get over him.
Most Helpful Girl
You're infatuated by this guy.
Eventually, he will fade away from your mind.
Yes, it seems like that will never happen because it HAS been happening for so long.
But trust me, things will grow better.
Regaining contact won't change your history together, he'll probably still operate the same way towards you.
So anything you feel those urges to re-connect understand that the situation is one that cannot be helped.
This will give you ease in knowing that you are standing strong, and making the right choice to continue to move forward.
It's hard to erase someone from our minds that we invested so much like in, once upon a time.
But yes, trust me!
IT WILL get better!!