Do you think he will ever leave her for me?
i met this man in January of last year and I told me had a girlfriend but I still got things on with him about 2 month into our relation he called me her name so I left him for two weeks, we then got back together and his girlfriend found my number in his phone and and called me so I got angry and left him once more plus I was getting tired of being his second best, every time I leave him ( 5 times) he keeps on coming back and I stupidly keeps on taking he back. he says he want to sort things out so we can be together but he is afraid I am gonna leave him after he leaves her, he also say I am very young the youngest person he has ever been with ( he is 44 and I am 21) so that kinda scares him that I may leave him for someone younger than he is. he has been with his other girlfriend for 2.5yrs and with me for 1yrs. I also started a relationship with another guy about 5 months ago I told him I was going to level the playing field and equalized thing so he has someone and I have someone. I recently told him to leave me alone and go back to his girlfriend cause after 2.5yrs she at least deserves him to be faithful to her and came to me crying saying I am the person who makes him the happiest, plus I don't know if I could really trust him if we were to get into a serious relationship (he cheated with me for a year why won't he cheat on me?) what should I do?
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I was in a similar situation to yours so I can relate to how you feel. I met a guy while on vacation, and we kissed even though he had recently started dating a girl a few weeks earlier. We lived in different states, and he emotionally cheated on his girlfriend with me for three months. I had started dating someone else during that time but never made it official because of this other guy. The guy never left his girlfriend for me (they've now been together for ten months) despite telling me that he really wanted to be with me, and we eventually cut off all contact with each other. Breaking things off with him was the best decision of my life. When I think back on the situation, I feel so stupid and embarrassed. His girlfriend was a sweet girl and didn't deserve that. I regret what I did and have vowed that I would never be the other girl again.
My advice to you is to let him go and find a single guy that truly deserves you. The hurt eventually goes away, and you'll feel better about yourself in the long run. If he loved you, then he would have left his girlfriend for you already. Good luck :-).0