I found out that my boyfriend is gay. What should I do?


0|0

Most Helpful Guy

  • nothing you can do, you won't be able to change what he is

    4|0
    0|0

Most Helpful Girl

  • Umm, is this a trick question? You break up.

    3|0
    0|0

What Guys Said 21

  • write a book

    4|2
    0|0
  • Don't be angry with him, realize it takes a lot guts for someone to come to the realization and tell you.

    He obviously cares about you as a friend to tell you so I would say, continue being his friend, because he may need you now more than anything!

    1|0
    0|0
  • Find a new boyfriend. What else can you do?

    It is not your fault and there is nothing you can do about it other than accept it and move on with your life.

    0|0
    0|0
  • Keep him as a friend, but it's done between you.

    1|0
    0|0
  • Either find him a boyfriend OR hire strippers to bring him back

    0|0
    0|0
  • If he actually is gay, you need to break up with him.

    0|0
    0|0
  • you go to the gym and perv on the boys with him

    3|0
    0|0
  • Dump him?

    0|0
    0|0
  • Simple. Find a new boyfriend.

    0|0
    0|0
  • if he's gay and not bi, meaning he is not attracted to you, it might be better to break up

    0|0
    0|0
  • ... dump him

    0|0
    0|0
  • become a lesbean.

    0|0
    0|0
  • Be his friend, try to make him bisexual lol

    0|0
    0|0
  • break up with him is stupid and a waste of your time

    0|0
    0|0
  • Wow. That's great. You ever had sex with him?

    0|0
    0|0
  • If he is really gay then he has been using you. It's not your fault, but you're going to have to break up, he is a sick man for leading you on like that.

    1|0
    0|0
  • blah blah blah, everyone says find a new boyfriend... that's no fun... find both of you a new boyfriend on craigs list, that's more fun =)

    1|0
    0|0
  • ignore him break up or call someone to fuck u and him
    that is sick

    0|0
    0|0
  • How you find out lol

    0|0
    0|0
  • Try having a ggf with him.

    0|0
    0|0
  • Start looking for a new boyfriend. maybe stay friends.

    0|0
    0|0

What Girls Said 18

  • Talk to him about it and if he ACTUALLY is, break up with him and maybe try to be friends

    1|0
    0|0
  • Gay or bisexual? If gay then just end things. If bisexual then there's no issue with your relationship.

    0|0
    0|0
  • Break up with him but stay a friend?
    Did he come out yet and more importantly do you know if he's gay for sure?
    He might be bisexual.

    0|0
    0|0
  • MOVE ON!

    0|0
    0|0
  • Break up?

    0|0
    0|0
  • Break up with him immediately

    0|0
    0|0
  • Nothing. Just let him go. Be his friend though. He'll need support.

    0|0
    0|0
  • Umm how did you find out, though? Maybe he isn't.

    0|0
    0|0
  • find another boyfriend and stay friends with this one

    0|0
    0|0
  • No other option really but to leave him.

    0|0
    0|0
  • Did he tell you himself?

    0|0
    0|0
  • You should help him to get out of the closet.

    0|0
    0|0
  • Dump him

    0|0
    0|0
  • he's not gay. he's faking it to get rid of you. Dont be an idiot.. Guys do it all the time.

    0|0
    0|0
    • Do guys really do this? Why would a guy say he gay If he isn't?

  • Well break up with him. But don't be mean to him, be cordial

    0|0
    0|0
  • If he enjoys men, then you can be his friend if you want. If he's bi (likes guys and girls) you can try to date him, but if he'd rather date guys, then... see the first suggestion. If not, then you can break up and move on to someone else.

    0|0
    0|0
  • Get a new boyfriend because you apparently had a girlfriend.

    0|0
    0|0
  • Breakup...

    0|0
    0|0
Loading... ;