My boyfriend and I all we do is argue. I have not physically cheated but I did go on a date with a guy and we have been texting and talking on the phone. The guy I have been talking to has no idea I am in a relationship.
I guess I have been talking to this guy because I just feel like my boyfriend wants to be with someone else lately. Plus he picks fights with me of the smallest things. I tried to talk it out and work it out but Its not working.
I have been thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend. Should I tell him I been cheating or just break up with him?
Most Helpful Guy
Well I think you are clearly unhappy in your current relationship. You are not doing injustice to both the guys, you are doing injustice to your boyfriend because you are dating someone else while still in a relationship and you are doing injustice to the guy you are dating with because you haven't told him you are in a relationship still!!. What are you doing here? what do you want?
You are definitely having the intention to cheat on your boyfriend and that's really not a healthy attitude to have.
If you are really very happy and you are sure that it's not working out then you should just break up, come out of that relationship and then you can do what you want.1
Most Helpful Girl
If you feel your boyfriend wants to be with someone else and he picks fights and won't talk about it, then there is something definitely wrong on his part. I don't blame you for cheating, honestly. But I would probably tell him how you are feeling about your relationship and if he isn't willing to repair what you two have, I would definitely break up. But I would deal with the whole situation soon so that he doesn't accidentally find out about the 'other guy'.2