Most Helpful Guy
Ok so he things he has you wrapped round his finger and that if he said jump you would say how high so stop that right now lol. Make it clear WHAT you want and if he isn't down for that tell him if he changes his mind to contact you BUT you won't hang around and wait. Then leave it at that if he texts you ignore for the first couple of times make him chase you
Most Helpful Girl
It is cruel and he's just a horny dog I think you did the right thing !
Because you catched him redhanded he simply does not know anything to say back so he's a shallow guy.
I think he messaged you just to keep you as a second option... he does not put effort in it but just does a little that seems the right amount to keep you interested in him.
I think you should be happy to not have to deal anymore with such a person !
Suppose you stay with him he will only toy with your feelings... you deserve better :)