But for some reason each time I think that I have to throw away his gift and letter I hesitate. Why? And what do you think I should do... wait before doing it?
Most Helpful Guy
Hmm , personally if he's gone that far I'm sure he is sorry and regretful. I think personally he has issues which need to be resolved. But do I think you should give up? NO I am currently going through a break up myself and would give anything to show my ex girlfriend how great I can be. Sometimes break ups can actually help create a better relationship as it pin points what went wrong and what needs to be done to make it right BUT if you go back just get a few counselling sessions he may have some issues "child related " or just something in general.
Most Helpful Girl
If his gifts make you remind yourself about your resentment towards him, better get those gifts out of your sight. You don't necessarily need to throw them if you hesitate to put those in your trash bin. You may give it to the needy (if applicable, depending on the gift) or store it in a very secret place you won't bother going into.
If you can't take it anymore, I'd suggest burning them if you want but that would be very extreme in my opinion.