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Why do you still get mad? It's simple, he hurt you. You get mad because you don't understand how someone could use you, especially after saying they want to share their life with you.
When someone does that it shakes you, it makes you feel like you're crazy and that you are not able to properly judge people.
The thing you need to do to move on is to focus on all the bad. It didn't work out because he has no respect for you. He can't or chooses not to be faithful and that's a huge problem for you. You deserve someone who is only with you and someone who actually does want to spend their life with you.
He lied to you. He made you feel as though there was a future when there wasn't, and that is incredibly hurtful. I know this because I've been here too. I don't know how people can do that to another person, but they do. It's tough, and it makes you want to kick and scream.
I was cheated on too. It sucks big time! It really shakes your beliefs.
You may think they are happy, but think about it. If he cheated on you and he cheated on her with you, then if she knows, she's probably not having a good time. Probably worried all the time that this guy is going to cheat, and leave her for someone else. That's not a very good, healthy, happy relationship.
You have a chance to find someone who is going to see all the wonderful things you poses and is going to cherish your relationship together. You deserve so much more than what this guy had to offer, that's why it didn't work out.
Move on by investing in yourself. Buy some new clothes, get your hair done, get your nails done, look fabulous. Go out, have confidence! Hang out with friends and people who leave a positive impact on your life. Discover new hobbies and learn new skills.
You'll eventually find a guy who is going to bring good things into your life like love, respect, and honesty and not lies, pain and tears.
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