This has happened numerous times. We have been apart for a year now and are divorced. We were together for 8 years. She left me. But she gets mad that she doesn't have her stuff, but something always comes up or she all of a sudden doesn't feel like leaving the house. I still have this stuff she left after a year, cause she says she wants it. But she never comes even after scheduling a time. She gets annoyed/mad that she doesn't have it yet.
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Option 1) She may be the one who left, but struggling with her choice and so finally coming to pick up her stuff means its really all over with and so cancelling is her way of not dealing
Option 2) She's messing with and trying to get under your skin
Solution is simple. She has exactly this date and that date to come pick up her stuff. After that either you tell her you're going to donate the items or that you will drop them off with some designated person and she can pick them up from them. Problem solved.0