Cheating On Boyfriend?
What Guys Said 1
I don't think you should meet other guys. You will probably lose your respect if you do. in my opinion, I think you should just break up. You have self-respect and you have to defend that. Talk about it and if you see something wrong, just break up with him.
What Girls Said 1
Ok lets take a step back and have a look at this rationally...
Your boyfriend has lied to you consistently and he's making you unhappy because he can't or won't be honest with you.
He blantantly disrespected your wishes not to contact this certain girl and still went ahead and did so.
So..what's your next move?
Personally I would break up with him, but it sounds like you need a bit of time (and I'll say this in capitals to really stress my point) ON YOUR OWN. You need to regain your self confidence after being worn down by this bloke. Going out and seeing other boys at this moment in time is not the best way of moving forward. You're better off out of it, because if its bad now, imagine what things will be like further down the road and worst still if you're married and have kids with this guy.
Don't have any more contact with him after you've broken up, if you're finding it difficult now, you'll sure as hell find 1000 times harder once you're not seeing him.
You need a bit of time by yourself, to start living your life again and not worrying about what some low life is geting up to behind your back.
Best of luck and much love xxx0
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