First breakup, tough time coping?

Anonymous
About 3 weeks ago, I ended my first relationship. We dated for 3 years, 6 months. We spoke about marriage, kids, where we would live, etc. I cared for and loved her, but realized that she wasn't the one for me. I guess you could say I got tired of putting in a ton of effort at the beginning of our relationship, only to find out that the "past is the past" (in other words, whatever I did for her in the past is not relevant anymore).
The problem is, I can't stop thinking about her. I have finals in 2 weeks, and need to stay focused. It has been 3-4 weeks since the break up. Neither one of us has contacted the other, and likely never will.

If any of you could offer advice, please do?
Does it get easier to find someone and date after your first relationship?
First breakup, tough time coping?
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