Thank u! It's been almost 3 years
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Because I was going to post it somewhere else but it was too long, so I tried to copy and paste and it doesn't allow me to so rather than texting it over I did it that way... sorry it bothered u more than it should but can I have an opinion now? Thanks lol
Sorry, haha, Honestly, I think you might be over-reacting about the vacation thing, I hate to say this, because clearly you love him, And, he obviously loves you to, but, some times dudes just need to time to hang out with their guy friends you know?At the end of the day, Even though he's with you, he still has his own friends and family he likes to hang out with, And, a lot of guys like to keep their friend life and love life separate. (I mean... how many women would take their guy out on a girls night out or something?) To dudes, Going on holidays and stuff are like... ''lads holidays'' you know? Just time to chill with bros.I think you just need to let him do what makes him happy, If you get upset / dramatic over him spending time with his friends, He might even start to feel... almost possessed by you. And, I know thats not your intention, You just love him and want to spend time with him.Just ride it out matey, Like you said he wants to plan something with you. :)
Thanks I understand, but three vacation with his friends versus none with me yet? The ratio is off. He's not being fair why do I have to be the one to be put on hold why can't it be his friends especially after knowing how I felt about it just makes me feel he doesn't take my feelings into consideration. Plus I believe he is only planning something with me because he realized how passionate I was about the situation. I never give him problems about him chilling with the boys but this is different.
Dont get me wrong, I understand where you are coming from my friend, but... I'm struggling to word this haha.Basically, His dude friends, He likely loves them (In a different way ofc) as much as he loves you. They have been there for him most of his life i assume, Through everything, He has shared all his fun, And all his pain with those lads. They mean a lot to him,And, Please dont take this the wrong way, As im sure he very very much loves you, But, You guys have only been dating, 2 years did you say? He has not really had the time with you to develop a bond quite as special as with his life friends, You know? whilst im sure he loves you to bits, Perhaps this is what it took for things to change? For you to state your feelings that is, I mean, Now that you have pointed it out, he's making efforts to resolve the situation and vacate with you right?Guys aren't mind readers matey!, You need to give them clues, Haha, And you did, And it worked!.
And i think that truly stands testiment to how much he cares for you, The fact that you stated you werent happy about the situation with him, And he is actively trying to change that.I'm sure you two will be very happy with each other!, And i hope this resolves in time!.but as i said matey, I think you just need to ride it through, It would be a shame to end what could potentially be so incredible over a matter like this, You know? :)
Thank u! I thought so too
Thanks I agree