When my partner minds his child it is always in his ex's never our home, is this normal?
What Guys Said 1
I think you need to reframe this. His son comes first.. That's a strong and natural bond, and not something that undermines your relationship or means that he is not standing up for you. There's nothing wrong with him spending time with his son. If he's only seeing his son at her house then there will be reasons: it's hard to be in two families. Don't try to renegotiate the terms under which father and son are united: you are not a party to that family, and you don;t have a right to spend time with his son.
Instead, it's important that you show that you want to understand why. You feel upset about that and, honestly, you need to start to think about that differently.
You need to cut this guy a lot more slack and reduce the tension which I imagine this has introduced into your relationship. If you are not careful you will push his ex-wife into the position where she is hearing all about rows between the two of you.0
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