If your partner cheated on you would you forgive him/her or break up?
How forgiving are you , would you give them another chance, and try and make it work if you have spent a lot of time in the relationship, and are emotinally invested, or would you break it off.
- ForgiveVote A
- BreakupVote B
Most Helpful Girl
I cheated, and I never plan on doing it again. I did it in the beginning of a relationship because I was unsure as to whether or not he was right for me, and if I could trust him. He hungout with a lot of girls and when he went out on the weekends he was hard to get a hold of. Cheating made me realize that WHY somebody cheats is an important factor to acknowledge. I felt like I was just beating him to the chase, and my insecurity led to the behavior. There are also people that go into a relationship knowing they will cheat, and are more concerned with developing good ways of being able to cover this up, and that is truly wrong.
But, I don't think I would still be able to stay with someone if I found out that they cheated on me. Things just wouldn't be the same because I would have to deal with that fear of them cheating. I think if somebody cheats, and they realize it is wrong that it is best just not to tell there partner. If they do it once, and still have an increased desire to do it again they need to just take a break from their relationship and evaluate why they feel the need to cheat. Cheating is devestating to the well-being of the person that is effected, and can have a huge effect on their self-confidence and faith in the idea of trust in later relationships. I have been cheated on, and it made me super fearful. Look at me now, I did it partly because I assumed he would.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE