I fell in love with a guy a couple years back. He was never my official boyfriend. We'd see each other all the time & actually became really close. He knows me very well & vice versa. It was a passionate & intense relationship he just couldn't commit to me no matter how hard I tried to change his mind. I stuck around cried, begged and sworn to never speak to him a thousand times but I'd still go back, or let him back in. He knows I truly love him. And maybe he loved me back at some point but I'm tired of feeling unwanted so I'm staying away. The thought of him triggers my deepest emotions. Why does it hurt so bad?
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Are you still in touch with him? If so that can make it worse. Also if you've never found closure and heard him say he doesn't care, that uncertainity can make you think more about him.
I went through the same thing and time does heal. Just know that he wasn't giving you what you needed, he'll never be the man you wanted him to be. Keep yourself busy and think of why you weren't the right match for each other. If he couldn't committ to you now, how much worse would it be later down the line? Would he cheat? We can't change a person, they have to want to change. Sometimes they're not capable of caring enough about anyone else enough to put their own ego and pride aside.0