Ex broke up with me saying he wasn't ready for a relationship and wanted to stay friends over messenger as I basically called him out on it because he was ignoring me and kept making up excuses. I accepted it and was fine with it, we kept in touch, message him every few days and he would respond but I was always the one initiating conversation with him, during the relationship and afterwards, i stopped messaging him , as i thought i shouldn't be the one making the effort all the damn time , over a period of time he didn't contact me at all, i messaged him, saying I can't be friends with him, if he was gonna act like that, cause it hurts me too much , so i unfriended him on facebook, for my own sanity and peace of mind, and said to him when I've healed recovered and over you , ill re add you, signifying we can be friends again. , I sent him two friend requests , on different days as I thought maybe the first one didn't work and then I realised it he didn't accept either of them, it signified to me he didn't want to be friends but the day after i done that he visited my dating profile and he keeps visiting it, this is where we meet, what the hell is going on there?
Oh we meet couple of times in person, the first time I didn't know about as my best friend arranged it and hide it from me. I was always the one making the effort to come and see him as he wouldn't travel to the place I live, as he hates the area and I put him in his place a couple of times as he tried it on with me and said it would be on my own terms.