What I mean by refuse is any effect her dad makes to invite me over during family dinner or have a conversation with me... I simple rejected his offer or refuse to have a conversation with the guy. I know I sound like a ass but a year ago he forced my ex girlfriend to break up with me and treat me like I was less them human like I was dirt all with a smile on his face. See i have forgive her dad for forcing us apart and all the lies. But I haven't forgive the guy for treating me so poorly... I was more honest with the guy then anyone on this earth even my girlfriend. I don't truest the guy and any respected I had for him is all gone and he never once said sorry for the way he treated me. I just have nothing left to say to the guy at all.. so I refuse to deal with him and keep any conversation I have with him short. Is this really a bad thing to do? I don't even speak to any of her brother as will since they threaten to beat me up a year ago. But that's a story for another day.. Am not afraid of her brothers at all I just have no respected for them as will. I pretty much have always been 100% honest with every single person in her family so I guest I just expected the same in return.
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wanna know what you're doing right now? Being petty, beyond petty. YES, he forced you and your girlfriend apart the first time. And yes he had his little girl treat you like utter shit for a while. You know why? He's a dad, that's why. He wants whats best for his little girl, so he's probably still acting like an ass on his own in hopes that you can't deal with it, and leave your girlfriend. As for her brothers, they're doing what brothers do when their sister has a gu in her life. All this here is normal. Do you realize that refusing anything to do with her family shows her dad that you can't let that shit in the past go. Not only him but your girlfriend as well (Setting yourself up for failure here. RED FLAG) You're giving him something else to hang over your head and giving her bro's all more of a reason to bash your face in come Thanksgiving. Bottom line, DEAL WITH IT. Go to whatever family event or get together they may be having. If you really love that girl, you would endure all the bs just to be with her. Don't let her dad or anyone keep you two apart. They'll notice and they may approach you correctly. Who knows, her father just might bury the hatchet with you, and try to get along. Cause again, if you love her, you'd do anything to keep her from leaving your side.0
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