Most Helpful Guy
It's a long process... I'm helping a couple friends with that right now actually. You have to learn to love yourself for who you are and where you are, then you won't feel the need to be validated by others. It's far too much to go over on here, but you have to learn to stop yourself when you're thinking negatively and turn them into positives. Eventually seeing yourself in that light will become natural. I used to be insecure and very unconfident. I've completely changed that now. Took a couple years though. I'm not sure if that helps at all, but I hope so.
Most Helpful Girl
You should love yourself because no one will do that for you !
Loving yourself means also taking care of yourself and stand up for yourself.
You are being too kind and some people will use you for that!
Learn from your mistakes.. don't give them money , don't "chase" them if they are not so interested and don't meet them more than half way.
If someone truly loves you he WILL put effort in it!
You deserve someone better.
You are giving more than you are getting back and that's a big mistake.
Also your attitude is important, if you make them feel like you can't live without them they will pick up on that and will use you too.
Never ever chase a guy ! he's not worth it trust me.
love is great but like with every relationship it's a two way street.
Don't jump in a relationship quickly but wait and take your time.
With time you will know if someone is truly interested in you.
Other than that LOVE yourself !
No human is better than the other and your time is precious too so why waste it on assholes?
If a guy leaves you well it's his loss coz you provided him with love , attention , money.. pretty much your heart.
Someday they will realize tgey were jerks.
Just do things you love and travel maybe you will meet new people and one thing can lead to another thing ;)
enjoy your life it's too short to waste your time on people that don't care.