Most Helpful Guy
don't build your hopes in someone worship drinking bottle more than you.
be smart enough to walk away from the negativity around you… it's never worth your while, ever.
Most Helpful Girl
When he was good he was good and u tell yourself that's the real him? When he acted up you tried to 'put yourself in his shoes' and justify why he was acting that way or think you must be misunderstanding him. Been there done that got the tshirt.
What it comes down to is this - Someone who puts you down - does not love you and does not care about you. No matter what he says or does when he is having a 'good' day.
Of course now you see this... now you're blinkers are off and it hurts so much and you just want to go back to being oblivious to it. But you must not. Because if you do, you will spend your life constantly trying to obtain love from a man who only cares about himself. Its not possible and that's not you're fault, its not you that's broken. Its him. And he cannot be fixed. By you or anyone else.
Work on learning to love yourself and protect yourself, take up a hobby, join a class and every morning tell yourself in the mirror 'I am worth a person who loves me for me'. Work on moving forwards and not looking back. Good luck.