Actually I have the same story but I actually managed to talk to her. After 2 years, I told my crush my feelings and we actually got to meet each other and get to know each other. The problem is that we know we could never be in a relationship but we still have feelings for each other. I am trying to get over her, but not having too much luck in doing so.
There were three different reasons. First of all, what each of us planned dreamed for the future didn't really work well together. Second, because we couldn't really support each other's needs so we ended up suffering together even if we had feelings for each other and we tried. Third, it turned out that she had a boyfriend all along that she didn't tell me about until the end, so even though she was for it I couldn't really be that kind of guy. Overall, it was probably one of the best experiences and worst experiences I have had so far. I wanted to be with her so badly, but I knew that it took a lot out of me in doing so. At first I wanted her to be happy more than anything, and didn't care if I suffered in the process. Of course, I have to end it. It was really painful for me to do, but I did it. Probably one of the hardest things I have done.
We both have feelings for each other, but we can't be together.
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We can't be with each other, but we still have feelings for each other.
sorry, that's unfortunate. You can't just shut off your feelings for someone. If there's no possibility you can both be together then all you can do is learn to accept you can't be together. Do you still have contact with her?
No, I just told her that I can't talk to her anymore.
If you aren't talking anymore then gradually your feelings will fade for her
Okay. Thanks I guess.
If you can't be together , and you aren't speaking you have no other choice but to accept things as they are... no matter how painful the situation
Can you be together?
no we can't.
What do you mean? Tell her what?
Why would you want to get over someone who has feelings for you? what's wrong with her...
Its really complicated. There are so many reasons why we can't be together.
Still seems like something you need to discuss with her to make sure everyones feelings are resolved in the end.
See refuses to talk about it. Believe me I have tried.
Ah well I don't know what to suggest then, to be fair trying to discuss things hasn't worked much for me in my love life either. :(
My entire love life has been like this. It has been really hard on me. I wish people can just be upfront and honest about how they feel about things, and truly think of the other person they are with. That's really unfortunate that you haven't had good communicates with your partners. Trust me, I know what that feels like. Thank you for your opinion.