My boyfriend came to visit me for two weeks. We don't live close to each other. I kinda understand that he flirts with other women online.. but what I don't understand is that he was checking out girls from where u live online and was planning to bang her before he came to meet me. I have no doubt that he cheat on me many times while he says he loves me and introduced me to his mom..
I'm deeply hurt that he was ready to sleep with a girl from the city where I live the same day he arrived... I found out all this from his phone while he sleep..
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My question is, why is he still your boyfriend?
Why have you not confronted him about this?
It's one thing to cheat (which is a deal breaker for many), but it's another thing to hide those lies.
That means, if he cheats in the future he won't be honest enough to tell you... you'll have to find out.
How can you trust him to ever tell you if he does cheat again?
Your relationship is over whether you call it quits or not, because the trust factor is completely gone based on not one, but two of his wrong actions.1