So me and bob were dating for almost 2 months. The week before we broke up we got into 4 fights. He was being rude or didn't respond so I was like wtf is your deal? That Sunday we broke up because he said something about not caring and I was like so you don't care about me? And he lied at first but I questioned him so much about it he started saying I don't know and that breaking up was the hardest decision he ever made. He said he missed his friends and freedom and he was worried about cheating. A few days later his friend snaps me a selfie with a funny caption. I respond with that's cute. Then he send a picture of all his friends he is with and bob is in the background flipping the camera off. Te next day I have a bonfire with my friends and I post lots of snapchat stories of it me and all my friends ( guys included ) the next day bob posts on his snapchat story of a group of girls at 2 am saying that are trying to look cute. Then he post another one of him and a girl. A few days after he post another one with that girl. That girl ( let's call her Amy). He continues to post pics with Amy and then Amy follows me on insta. I decided to try and cut contact because it was making me sad so I stopped viewing any of his stuff and continued to view his friends stuff. His friends begin to post more stories with Bob in them. Usually shirtless. Then he stops posting pics with Amy on snapchat and posted a pic on insta 5 days ago. The pic was old bc it was one taken 2 weeks before when they all were hanging out. I check her insta bc he tagged her in it. She had it hid from her profile and she didn't comment anything back to his photo. Lately he has been posting a lot of random and stupid crap on his snapchat story
I will continue the rest of the story in a update. I don't have enough room here.
Most Helpful Guy
it sounds like he has lost his best freind if you ask me, sure he posts pictures and everything showing a good time but inside im sure he is depressed , it can effect you in some ways like loosing weight. but i can't say why he is loosing weight. but it does sound like he is hurting from something or he would show more signs of being happy away from you.
Most Helpful Girl
He still wants you, and it made him sad that you broke up. I think it is really affecting him. The snaps was probably him trying to seem like everything fine and he doesn't care which was probably an attempt to make you feel like he's fine without you, probably also to make you feel jealous so you'd come back to him. I think you should talk to him, if he is losing weight because you broke up, it's possibly because it seems like you don't care. I say he still has feelings for you and regrets the bad things he did to you. Also, consider what could possibly have lead him to say those things. I just realised how much I wrote, hopefully, it all helps.