and after I went out and done everything for him, to prove to him I loved him so much, he just wants to be "friends" then he would ignore me and I got sick of it and cussed him out yesterday.I basically told him that I was NOT going to be 2nd in his life and he wasn't going to use me for things his current girl want do for him ( not talking about sexual stuff either) Just in general nice things. so now he want talk to me at all. He never gave me closure and every time I bring up the break up he would cut me short,so I stopped talking about it. well now since yesterday he want answer my text or calls. what can I say to this guy to make him realize he hurt me and make him feel bad for what he did,and freaking pick up the phone like a man and talk.
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The funniest part about this is, when a woman does this to a man then it's "she's just confused" or people say "she just needs time" or "you did something to make her feel different about you" Women always put men in the friend zone. Always making excuses and trying to make the man the bad guy and the woman the victim. As a woman you (and the women that has answered or will answer this) have probably done something like this before saying to men you are not attracted to "lets just be friends" knowing that he wants more and that he is or was a great guy. Now the shoe is on the other foot for a change... Now let me just say this, THAT'S GARBAGE THAT HE WANTS YOU TO BE FRIENDS WITH HIM. So here's the deal. If you were great to him and he did that to you then that means that he just didn't care. He used you as a rebound. You have to have more self respect and move on. Don't keep chasing him. Never talk to this guy again, no calls, texts, e-mails, no stalking, and don't hang at the same places anymore. Improve on yourself, new clothes, hobbies, friends, fun experiences, start dating again and so on. Some women would go through what you are going through and would start being convienced that all men are the same, but as a good woman you are BETTER than that so don't go that route. I understand that it's much easier said than done. Now I am not going to tell you crap like "there's someone out there for everyone" or the fish in the sea bull crap, but you being a woman you have the advantage of men going up to you. The meaning of life is to LIVE.0