So I dated this guy for 4 months and things didn't work out between us because he didn't want to commit to me~ I guess he had doubts about us because to him common interest defines a relationship. Even though our personalities were very similar he was so fixated on the fact that we lacked common interests in regards to science and politics. I think throughout the relationship I tried my best to make him happy and I really tried to love him for all his flaws. I was really good to him to the point that he told me im one of the kindest person he ever met. But maybe it's because he was previously hurt in his last relationship that he was scared to open up to me. He always felt somewhat distant and he didn't really try in the relationship. Even till the end, I tried my best because i told him I still like him so I want to be with him even if he doesn't want to commit to me. I mainly said that because he seemed confused.. One week after we stopped seeing each other he told me he was beginning to think that maybe letting me go was a mistake but after I wrote let's try again I got no response from him. im just wondering if he will ever realize what he lost?