and letting you get closer to her
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if I'm going out with you..
i would personally tell you about my past life..
especially if I've been hurt before..and give you explanations on why I'm so closed off (meaning that I don't tell you how I feel, or show you that I care even though I do)
in doing so, I'm letting you in..to my past dark life that made me this way...if you decided to listen to it and show me that you care..that's when I slowly show my emotions..
some examples: I cuddle more, smile more..and you can definetely tell if a girl is comfortable around you rather than having those awkward moments..
if I barely even met you, well, I would still have my guard up cause I wouldn't want you to think I'm crazy if I start blurting out about what had happened..lol..
TRUST is the key to this..once she starts to trust you, she'll let her guard down and take that chance with you0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE