and letting you get closer to her
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if I'm going out with you..
i would personally tell you about my past life..
especially if I've been hurt before..and give you explanations on why I'm so closed off (meaning that I don't tell you how I feel, or show you that I care even though I do)
in doing so, I'm letting you in..to my past dark life that made me this way...if you decided to listen to it and show me that you care..that's when I slowly show my emotions..
some examples: I cuddle more, smile more..and you can definetely tell if a girl is comfortable around you rather than having those awkward moments..
if I barely even met you, well, I would still have my guard up cause I wouldn't want you to think I'm crazy if I start blurting out about what had happened..lol..
TRUST is the key to this..once she starts to trust you, she'll let her guard down and take that chance with you0