We have been broken up for TWO YEARS!! I don’t want him were not getting back together. Were both in relationships. He asked me to hangout with him Sunday. So I said cool I haven’t see him in a year so we hung out he talked about us having sex and how he remember every time we had sex and every detail. He tells me he’s sorry about how we broke up and that he never cheated on me while we were together. Then he asks me about my current relationship. He said, “Are you two serious? Are you dating him to get married or just to pass the time?
If he dies today how would you feel about it? Then he started telling me about him and his girlfriend having issues. How she’s a jealous woman and wants a baby and he’s not ready for a baby. I gave him advice about what to do with his girlfriend and left it at that. He said, “You were cool. When we dated we didn’t have issues and the only problem we had was that you were moving out of state and I could not deal with that. I like hanging out with you. We never argued we didn’t fight like that”
I don’t get it, why haven’t he moved on. He’s in a relationship but CLEARLY he still wants something from me. He told me how he wants us to be better friends and hangout more and talk more. I said no. I have a boyfriend. I can't really do all that.
Most Helpful Guy
it's like... can we be a friends with benefits until things get better?
staying in contact with him will ruin your current relationship. sudden friendship from you ex mean you're special... and that's why he asked you about how you're really serious about your relationship with someone else (not him).
tell him that you forgave him before he ask, not cuz you have a feelings for him.. but cuz you became a different person with a different happy mentality and it's too late to become a friends again... and you hope his relationship will get better.. but you're not a good adviser+ good luck.
Most Helpful Girl
This is a textbook example of a fuck boy with no game. He's not even slick about how pathetically desperate he is. Please, don't give him those panties again. I can't tell you how many times this has happened to me lol Then you cry yourself to sleep over shame. It's not worth it - tell him Killer-Queen said fuck off lmao2