I don't get this behaviour. I have been ignoring him but I wonder if there is anything else I can do? I've blocked him on all social media, and changed my phone. It sucks we work together but I don't go out of my way to show my boyfriend off, whom has a better job, and education by the way. I just have moved on quietly.
why do some people feel the need to 'show off' in front of their ex or try to stir up some reaction?
Most Helpful Guy
Why does he do that? Because it makes him feel better if he gets a reaction from you. It makes him think he has/had the upper hand over you.
How do you deal with it? Continue to ignore him. Go about your business as if he doesn't exist. Pay attention to your other work friends and be happy your life no longer includes him. The fact you pay him no attention is the best medicine here. After all, why should you? You have a lot better relationship situation with your new BF! So when he walks by, say a quick 'hi' and 'bye', and keep on going w/o him.
Most Helpful Girl
If you're still paying attention to his behaviour and actually getting jealous, you aren't over him. Otherwise ignore it because who cares what he's doing.