What should I do and does being with your best guy friend ruin the relationship after?

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Me and my best guy friend had a thing for about 6 months. At first I wasn't sure if I should even be with him because people always say it ruins the friendship after but I did it anyway. Long story short we were a thing for about 6 months. We ended things because I found out my friend at the time kissed him. Not long after that they became a thing but while they were a thing we would hookup (make out and stuff) but it was never on purpose I just think we have a lot of sexual tension. Long story short after that they ended up dating for 2 weeks after they broke up he came running to me saying how he wants to be with me again but I wasn't sure about that because he told me after we ended things we never wanted to be with me again even though he was the one that cheated? Long story short I never gave him a direct answer because I was never really sure. But I accused him of something he didn't do. Now we don't talk and when we do it's over text and it's really short and dry. I don't know what I did he tells me I didn't do anything but I know him and I know when's he's just saying things. I am not the type to chase I just wanna know where we stand and I'm just really confused at this point. I'm trying to convince myself I'm over him but I'm lowkey not because it's like everytime I see him my feelings just suddenly re appear.

Do you think us being together Ruined our friendship? If so do you think it will ever be the same?

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What should I do and does being with your best guy friend ruin the relationship after?
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