My ex (age 31) and I were together for 5+ years and he cheated more than once. He says it was mever emotional which still doesn't ease the pain. We've been apart going on 2 years and he says he wants to get back together. I am very skeptical because of his past cheating. Also, when he has dated during this time apart, we have still slept together which confuses me. I know I shouldn't have continued to sleep with hin. He says that he can change and he wants to change... can I believe him or once a cheater always a cheater?
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Normally but not always.
If the guy just cheated once on a drunk night then its believable that it was a one time mistake and he would never do it under normal circumstances.
However if the guy has cheated multiple times then its fairly obviously its not just happening on accident and even if he doesn't cheat again is it really worth perusing a relationship where you always have it in the back of your mind whenever you see him communicating with another girl if he is cheating on you with her?2