so... you can't just enjoy being in a relationship? Admittedly biologically that's the end goal, but our society has grown beyond what we would do biologically/instinctively.
I will give you MHO
i am glad some girls actually think like me.
@Panay maybe one day you will understand. send me a message and we can talk
The point of a relationship is whatever you want from the relationship.
It's not. And you're stupid for thinking so.
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Thank you for pointing this out. None of the options hold any truth for me
lol they come when you come haha
if she told you she wants to get an artificial insemination
And I would say:"Honey, I understand your desires but...1. Why not my child?2. Why have a child if you're 18-24? Wanna wait to live your life a little bit first? Child is a very big responsibility.3. Honey, why are you asking strangers about this on the internet when you should've asked me how i feel about it?4. You want me to father a foreign child but you dont even know how i will react if you ask me?"Something like that.I gotta admit i dont know anything about your situation but to me, at the moment, this sounds like the most immature thing someone would do... No offense
well she wants your child but if you don't want she will tell you she wants an artificial insemination
If you mean I dont want a child generally, and she gets artificial insemination...Yeah, dumb her ass... Immature, irresponsible, inconsiderate. Great mother material
what should she do if you don't want a child?
Not have a kid or find another guy
what if she gets pregnant with YOUR child?
If i find out she was poking holes in condoms or something, I would sue her.Look, you do something behind my back or without my consent, especially something as extreme as that, you're dead to me, thats for sure. Not to mention that you're between 18-24. I dont know what your career plans are, but if i was your boyfriend, my career would just be starting and having a kid would definitely not help
without poking holes. Just happened
With today's technology, it doesn't "just happen"... Condoms are 99% safe (that 1% is human error), pills are 99.7% or something so the possibility of having a kid if we're careful is very, very low... But, if I did get a kid by no error of my own or hers I'd see how she feels about it. I dont want a girlfriend that doesn't care about a career so she would have her own career to worry about. She would probably abort. If not, I would be there for her, no matter what becaus I'd love her.I wouldn't be in a long-term relationship without loving the girl, obviously...
you would like her to abort?
Not my call. Its in her belly. As I said, I dont know what my emotions would be at the moment...If I loved her, I'd probably go with her to get a room decked out for the kid...Look, it all depends, for these situations you need to find yourself in to see your reactions...
raping you LOL
what about after getting married?
If a she's worth marrying, then eventually kids are going to come up as a hot topic... I don't think a woman should ever be pushy about it, but everyone understands that eventually they'll talk about when they want to have kids, how many they want to have, what they should be called, start planning for the future, etc. There's nothing wrong with talking about it and figuring out if you want to have kids right away, or have a few years of together time before you decide to start having kids...
I think you should talk about how many kids you want before marriage to make sure you're on the same page, but it shouldn't be a thing you're going to actually do until you're actually prepared to be good parents for them. Before marriage it's a dream. After marriage it starts to form into a plan.