Can somebody help me out here please? I'm a 37 year old man who has lived with the life philosophy of which women I make love to first will be the one that I marry, well this did not materialise due to her breaking up with me over 12 years ago. after breaking up she ended up in prison for fraud and did 2 years, in that time I had met and got engaged to what I thought was the women of my dreams, I called off the engagement due to major religious problems,should I date my ex-ex-girlfriend who is an ex-con?
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Well no one can, decide for you who you choose to date and make the decisions for you, but I would just say that people do make mistakes and they should learn from them. I wouldn't necessarily date someone who had been convicted of murder or rape or something that inflicted harm and pain on others. Actually technically I guess fraud causes emotional pain, but if they felt genuine remorse and were not going to do so again, and if you love her and want to give it another go I don't see why not. It also depends on how much your mothers opinion and consent matters to you. There is really nothing saying that if you do date your ex-con ex-girlfriend that you have to end up with her for the rest of your life but, I don't think it could do much harm, and you don't want to live with the doubt in your head about whether you made the right decision. So I don't know exactly what your relationship with her is exactly at the moment, but, I would maybe advise talking to her about it if she feels the same way about wanting to give it another go, and talk to your mother as well.
I really hope I helped, or that someone else who answered did so, and that whatever decision you make that you are happy with it and your life.0