So, here's the deal... My mom and her boyfriend have been having issues lately and they're acting immature and childish and my mom's been depressed and been telling me everything about how she feels. She also broke up with him last night and then he called saying he still wants to see her, and even though she's been nothing but sad ever since she got with him, she said yes, and now things are bad with them again. So, that already got me in a pretty bad mood as is. Now, my boyfriend and I had made plans for this weekend to go set my friend and his best friend up together, and we were supposed to go bowling. He came up with this idea, and we talked about this last weekend too. We're supposed to be going today. I told my friend and started making plans with her, and my boyfriend is aware of that, but I haven't heard a word from him all today or yesterday. I tried to reach him, but so far, nothing. So I'm pretty angry right now... Do I have reason to be, or should I just try to calm down and let this go?
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Miss Desirae, you're overanalyzing the situation because you are protective about your mom.
You and your mom are really close, for christ sakes.. I remember you telling me about her fbook account and how you and her chat through it.. She's a big part of your life from what I can see, and your getting upset that your boyfriend hasn't contacted you in regards to the plans you've lined up... Let's find out if you have the right to be mad...
Is this something common? Most of the time, men are not the best with "dates" because we are often busy with other obligations. Granted, if you were trying to call him and line stuff up, I could see where you are coming from... But here's a shocking realisation, maybe it's your anniversary today and you forgot, where your boyfriend is planning a suprise party... Yeah, it's completely unlikely, but what I'm saying is to just give it patience. If you have been blown off by him all day, maybe he was busy with his family due to a medical emergency- you will NEVER know if you overreact. Just give him the benefit of the doubt.
It's not like bowling and lining up another "double-dating-scenario" can't come another day.
- For now, just work with your mom on having a good day until you get in touch with your boyfriend and friends. She will appreciate it and truly enjoy that her daughter can spend some time with her ;)
Later miss desirae,
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