So here is the thing, my daughter told me this month that she is being touched in her no no spot (by another child who is 4 and she is 5) while her father is golfing and fishing, and also at school by another little boy (her age) She goes over there for 2 days every 2 weeks. (We don't have any custody established yet) I did file a report with the police because I didn't know if it was the child or an adult. I called her father the next day and told him what was said and he called my daughter a lier!! So she had an appointment with some counselors and they agreed that something happened. Her father called me that same night and said really you got the cops involved, it started off with how his nephew couldn't do that because he's younger then her and this and that, then went into how big of a bitch a am and how stupid I am. Basically he called me to tell me how big of a piece of shit a am. My daughter heard everything and her father calling her a lier and then took back what she said happened, I am getting my daughter into counseling, and I am not letting her see or talk to her father until we get it settled in court am I wrong for doing that? He keeps calling and I keep telling him she doesn't need negativity from him or his family and they don't need to be treating her different for what was said. Am I wrong?
Most Helpful Guy
You honestly have every right to do that. Kids don't lie about those things. If one of my kids said that to me I would DEFINITELY not call them a liar and got to the bottom of it with the child's mother. No one touches my kids and gets away with it. Kids need positive in there lives from both parents. I think her dad was honestly in shock and scared to learn that his little girl was being abused in that way. Now he seems to be mad but at the wrong people. He should focus his anger to the parents or person that did that to her. I am truly sorry this happened to her and continue to get her help and to the bottom of this all. You seem like a great mother keep up all the hard work. Parenting is not easy one bit but it's amazing at the same time0
Most Helpful Girl
No you are not wrong. I'm going through a similar issue but my child told me whose not 3 yet told me that her nana made me play with her boobies under her shirt. This isn't the first issue I've had with my mom in law my daughter and boobies which she's the one who told my baby what boobies were she wasn't two yet. So I went off they called me a lier saying that kids make up stuff like that all the time. Yea well that's bullshit for them to say that about us so I reported it to CPS and is being investigated. Stand your ground. Kids don't make this kind of thing up. You're doing your job as a mom.3