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That is a great question but it ends up being more about you than firefighting. Every occupation that entails with it a high stress level also has a high divorce rate. Your work winds you up inside and when you come home that inattention still exists. Rather than be afraid of getting divorced strive to find a partner who understands what's going on inside your head. You are 21 years old you have plenty of time to figure out what it takes to be compatible with you as an individual. So rather than jump into marriage you should jump into dating. You will quickly learn that every girl is different. Some cannot meld with the guy who comes home stressed out. Others understand and attempt to accommodate. That attempt usually fails because they are trying so hard to understand. Other girls just seem to naturally fit in. None of them are better than the other they are just different. The type of girl you're looking for could be married to a policeman or a neurosurgeon etc. etc. They are not psychiatrists, rather they have an inherent ability to understand you get it. So yes your stress level makes it more difficult to find the right girl but that does not make it impossible. Rather it takes time marriage becomes a partnership not a melodrama of love.