Question pretty much says it all.
Most Helpful Guy
First let me start off by saying if you deem yourself to be a "nice" girl, and the guy you want is a "player", chances are its not really going to work out because you want a relationship whereas he just wants to put it in as many holes as possible. In the end you will just get hurt, and worse than that you will struggle to form a bond with another person because at the back of your mind you will be thinking "I wonder if he has realised what he let go yet".
I look back on some of the girls I have dated and think "yeah, she was really nice, I wish I got more serious with her", BUT just because i think this it doesn't mean I would drop everything and come running back to your arms if given the chance.
As we all know looks are important. Harsh but true. If you are nice, but others girls I have been with are hotter, then it would make me think less about you as I feel my "league" is higher.
As I said at the start, if you have contrasting wants then its best you leave things in the past and move on to something new.
Most Helpful Girl
Sooner or later, yes. It usually takes a bit of heartache of their own to really wake up and realize what they’ve done. They don’t usually fully comprehend what they’ve done until they fall for someone like them whom they actually trust and that person smashes their heart in a million pieces, sets it on fire, then takes a big steaming sh*t all over it. But typically by then, the woman they left has moved on and found true love within a better man.
My best friend’s husband’s good friend is going through this right now and he’s a real mess.