Last month, my ex-boyfriend and I mutually decided to break up because we have no future together. We both hugged and cried before saying goodbye, and we have pretty much not contacted each other since then (except that one time when we exchanged a brief and awkward convo on Snapchat and he ended the conversation a few days after). I still have a little feelings for him, but I think that we have made the right decision.
Here's a thing: 2 weeks from now, He is gonna move out of his dorm to a new place. Before the break-up, we have been finding this place for him together and now I still really wanna offer him help with the moving because I have a car and he doesn't. However, I am afraid that I may come off as the "crazy obsessive ex" to him who wants to get him back (Which is absolutely not true). So now I'm confused... Should I break off our no-contact phase and text him to offer him help? He has quite a big ego, so I don't expect him to come to me to ask for help. But I know that his moving process will be much easier if I drive him!! Ughhh please help
Most Helpful Guy
yeah you can help him no problem i have seen plenty of breaks end friendly and they still remain friends and hang out drinking beers or whatever hits them.
why ruin a good friendship over a promise not to to be in a relationship? that just sounds crazy to me lol.0
Most Helpful Girl
Well you did help him in the process of finding a place so he shouldn't have any problem with you offering him help moving. If you want him back you gotta take it slow and don't beg or try to be around him all the time, give him time to miss you. But if you want to offer him help as a friend, go for it. But initiate no contact after and let him come to you.0