Most Helpful Guy
Its hard to get over that shit that's for sure. Especially like when you say you put so much effort into it and they don't. Don't know what to tell you I tried dating since my ex and it hasn't really worked out not much luck, and the sexual chances I've had I didn't go for cause I still think of her and she has me blocked on my phone and social media so its not like she gives a shit about me. Those with big hearts probably tend to obsess or have a hard time letting go
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Most Helpful Girl
Are you even sure he wants to get back together? If he could throw away 8 years that easily for someone new he must have been damn sure of what he wanted and had been thinking about it for a while. Even though he's giving you signs that he might, he probably just misses you. You were together for 8 years, of course he misses you, but it doesn't mean he wants to get back together. Breaking up with someone, even when it's your choice, sucks, you're still going to go through the grieving process and question your decision. Don't let him give you false hope. The longer you are together he harder it is for both parties, it's like losing a limb, you're so used to having them around and talking to them on a daily basis so it's hard to purge them from your life, hence why he's still coming around the way he is. Don't be fooled! Cut contact with him and move on. You'll never get over him if you keep in contact with him. Sorry you're going through this!