Even though I was preparing to break-up with her I didn't think it would hit me hard emotionally but it did.
Why is it that I wanted to break-up with her yet when she ended it with me, I feel this giant void.
I'm a very unemotional person but her breaking up actually made me tear up.
She did it right after we got back from vacation too and didn't even have the courtesy to do it in person.
First time a girl has broken up with me and I don't really know how to deal with it right now.
What should I do? Any advice would be helpful.
Thank you to anyone who gives even a slight care.
Most Helpful Girl
No one feels good being let go, even if they were on the verge of ending it themselves. When you are the one breaking up, you have a list of reasons that you are doing it. A lot of the reasons relate to what the other has done (or not done) that are causing you to end the relationship. Then they beat you to it and suddenly, you are stuck wondering what you did wrong, effectively making you take blame. Maybe even making you wonder if you have shortcomings that make you a not so desirable partner. It sucks, and if she gave you reasons, at least contemplate them. Every broken relationship is and opportunity to learn what you don't want in a partner and what you may need to address about yourself.1
Most Helpful Guy
Well you should look in the future I have told myself so many times this girls is the one... just keep loking it is hard to open your hearth again but if you feal you can do it just open it and give some care to your closest people and what ahould you do? Give yourself some time , abd go out with friends get yourself busy so you do not think about her , and do what you like 😉 if you won't to talk am hier buddy 😃1