Most Helpful Guy
You are crazy for keep on talking to him. Finding out that he might be a cheater if suspecting is reasonable to an extent. Still talking with him with said catfish account is crazy.1
Most Helpful Girl
I've done that before.. With making the fake online profile and cat fishing to catch a guy to see if he is genuine with me or not. Both times it didn't end well, and I was very upset. I had been seeing this guy for a couple of weeks and slept over, and he would message me every day and I really thought we were going strong.. And then I saw him online and made a fake profile and he said to the girl he wasn't seeing anyone, never really met anyone, how hard it is to do so, etc. Man! Did that sting! Right away I reacted as you had, my only bad is that I let him talk back into my life because he really did go off and explain himself and he made me feel like it wasn't as big as I was making it. We are still talking... I must be a fool, I don't know. I recently made another fake account since that incident happened a month ago. He hasn't messaged her yet, so we'll see.
Anyways, I don't think you're crazy at all. You really liked the guy! Those are real feelings and he destroyed that. This is on him, it really is. I know others will tell you that wasn't right to catfish him and whatever, but we have to do what we have to do in order to see if others are genuine, especially when we have suspicions as we had. It's a form of protection, and I think all you're feeling and did is valid. Don't let guys make you feel guilty or as if you did wrong when it was really them.1
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