So I've had a few dates with a girl recently, she's a nice and good looking girl but i think i've made a mistake and am not feeling anything for something serious right now.
I've never been the one to cut it off or break up so I've never done this before. How should i tell her that and how do i start about this?
Most Helpful Girl
It seems that with 'A few dates with a girl recently,' here, dear, that Keeping her in the Friendzone is not your Honest John Policy as well... Right now.
In Other words you just want to Rip off the band aid and Cut all Ties, and if so, Carefully Text her so you don't Come across this "Bad Boy" By Being Hurtful, and Simply tell her you think she is Great, she has a Nice personality and is Fun to be with, but you don't Feel that you are the Right guy for her because you are not looking for Anything from Anyone at this time. Go on with a bit more with "I'm going to be busy this summer and all" and this will Help lighten the Load and the Blow, Joe.
And Add "I am sorry."
Good luck, and Pleased to see there are still guys left like Yourself who don't Cower in a Corner when it comes to saying "Good-bye" and just Lie. xx0
Most Helpful Guy
Cut off all ties. Text her that your not interested and that's all. You owe nothing else. Block her and don't respond to anything she says because from what I've observed if you gently freindzone a girl she never really gives up the idea of intimacy. In other words if she's mad at the end of the night it's all good because it shows she given up any hopeful dream. But if she's normal and acts like its OK she's just think you'll come around again.1