Wishy Washy Ex Boyfriend?
What Guys Said 0
Be the first guy to share an opinion
and earn 1 more Xper point!
What Girls Said 2
I think what is happening here is he knows you are into him and want to be with him so he knows he can get by not doing much and is likely also holding you out as a option. It might not seem like that but when you look deeper he should know by now if he wants to be with you or not and if he wants to he'll be trying to win you over and will want to spend as much time and effort on you. It doesn't sound like he's really doing that to me which indicates where you are at in his priority list. The only way to remedy this is to yes, stop putting in effort without making a fuss. Don't initiate anymore. Let him do the work. If he truly wants you, he'll reach out. If he doesn't, you know he couldn't have been that into you.
I would honestly give him space. Allow him to miss you. If you keep in constant contact with him, you're only making it easier for him to get what he wants out of whatever you guys are currently.
You cannot undo this action. The opinion owner is going to be notified and earn 7 XPER points.