He's 32 and he said his life was a mess and being with me is unfair for me and hard for him to cope with everything. What he says is true. He couldn't even meet me to break up face to face because he said seeing me hurt would upset him and haunt him.
He never saved any money, had any drive, but I felt so close to him. He wouldn't meet my family because he was scared he's not good enough. He met my friends. 2 months of no contact & he's reaching out again. I waited so long for this, but I don't know if he's just seeking attention, or actually misses me.
I've been trying so hard to get over him. I had a rebound thing really early on, but it was a one time thing, which made me feel worse.
Most Helpful Guy
I would ignore it. His life is still a mess and you are probably the only one he thinks could deal with it again. Don't fall for it.
Most Helpful Girl
Testing the waters... seeing if that door is still open. I wouldn't engage with him personally. His reasons for not wanting to be with you are excuses no matter what you believe! Any one who truly wanted to be with someone would be no matter what! Sounds to me like someone else peaked his interest, he fed you lines and off he went. Now he's back because it didn't work out.