My boyfriend wants me to move in with him when I graduate in a couple months. he is still a grade behind me. I do want to move in. its just I don't want us to get sick of each other. and I still have some insecurities that I aren't comfortable with. I just like the comfortableness of my house and stuff like that. and every time it gets brought up he thinks that I don't love him and don't want to move in. I don't know what to do. I want to move in but I'm scared what might happen if we do.
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Your fears are valid. There are times that you are going to hate your boyfriend and you're going to feel trapped because you live together and there is nowhere to run to. That's how relationships are. It's understandable to have your fears, but it's something you are going to have to work through eventually. If not with him then with some other guy down the line. Know what you should do. Take it slow. Try staying at his place for 3 weeks and then go back to your place for another 2 weeks, then repeat. Each time taking more and more of your things, and arranging things at his place so that you can make it your own. See how that works for you.0