How do you know if you hurt a guys feelings?
What Guys Said 2
its both you and him and most guys are not raised for self expression or at least they weren't when i was your age and his. so with him not knowing how to expresses how he feels its coming from palce no one is allowed to be in in.
like a place that has millions of locks and secret passowrds etc. and when he lets someone a=in even though he can't show it and ends upp bieng hurt by the one person he allowed himself to be comfortable with
its like a steak to the heart and its gonna hurt for months if not longer and being the same with anyone else will be impossible. but he will get over it eventually being young does have its advantages when it comes to being hurt or hurting someone emotionally.
dont worry to much over it because he will get over the hurt and move on but for a bit he will have trust issues from this and might not treat the next girl as nice as he thought he was treating you.
Ever hear that having a relationship is all about communication? This is exactly what it means. If you can't talk about how you feel with someone then you can't really be in a relationship and expect it to work. People need to understand what you are thinking and feeling. It seems unfortunate that your boyfriend for some reason couldn't understand.
Don't ask people if you hurt him. I think it's obvious but the truth is that you shouldn't be having to guess how your boyfriend feels. He should really be more open with you in the first place.
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What Girls Said 1
People who've been hurt usually react and respond out of their negative emotions.
Sometimes they'll make rash decisions. Some people ignore you and cut all ties, others will display anger. People often say and do things out of character when they feel hurt, rejected or humiliated. . They may become verbally and /or even physically abusive.
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