He contacted me today saying sorry he's been so horrible to me for months, he doesn't know why he did it, I didn't deserve that and he missed talking to me (it's only been two weeks) and then said if it was love he guesses he wouldn't have been that way with me and he just wants to be how we used to when we were friends. I'm devastated. I said no and I need space and time and I don't want him any more but I just want space and he said I'm acting weird and said "yeah so? I don't want you either so why even bother telling me how much you don't want me" I just don't get how he can be over me so quick, he came back after two weeks to tell me he doesn't care any more but wants to talk to me? It makes no sense
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He wants friendship and freedom. He wants to be able to keep his options open. Obviously he sees you as a comfort zone as you've been there for him and you were together. It's free attention and he could very well enjoy your company in a friendship sense but right now I don't see this guy wanting commitment with you which is what YOU should be aiming at. If he can't commit to you then you have all the answers you need.