He is a free soul and very sensitive, he asked me out many times and I always say yes then ditch him, not intensionally but just because I didn't care about him.
Last time he asked me out, he said "I'm leaving the country next week, do u want to go out with me" ... I suddenly felt I should give him a chance, and I felt sad as a friend...
So we went out, with bounch of other friends. He followed me whole night on the dancing floor, finally he kissed me when we were alone, and he took me home that night... Next day morning, he cooked breakfast, he made coffee, he was cuddling me and I was very surprised that he actually do care...
And that day was his last day in this country, we went out again with friends, all the friends ended up at mine and he waited until everyone left in the early morning and he started kissing me and hugging me... And telling me many things happened to him and his family...
I didn't want him to feel unnecessary attachment since he is leaving next day morning, so i told him I "hate" him when he asked me if I ever liked him...
Now he is gone back to his country, i told him try to sort out the issue with his (ex) gf-for some reason I truly wish him always stay happy and have someone close to him and love him since he is a very sweat man... But deep inside I do miss him, and I know I shouldn't creat drama and tell him any of these.
I think he is thinking the same, he knows many guys after me and he shouldn't ask me to wait for him or even mention anything like that... I sometimes look at my phone and wish he texts me and tells me about his life... I know what is right to do, but I don't know if I should do the right thing or I should go follow my heart...
Most Helpful Guy
1. He asked you out many times and you said "no," but it was intentional. So you accidentally said "no?" Take responsibility for your actions. You said "no" and you meant to say "no," so it was quite intentional and deliberate.
2. "I didn't want him to feel unnecessary attachment since he is leaving next day morning, so i told him I "hate" him when he asked me if I ever liked him... " You have a justification for telling him a lie. Honest people do not find excuses to tell lies; they tell the truth.
3. " I do miss him, and I know I shouldn't create drama and tell him any of these." Actually, it sounds as if you are enjoying the drama.
4. "I think he is thinking the same." Unless he told you what he is thinking, you have no idea what thoughts are in his head; you are merely guessing and assuming that you are correct.
5. "I don't know if I should do the right thing or I should go follow my heart..." Following your heart into a relationship is usually the right thing. You are creating drama for yourself with this reasoning.
6. He lives in another country. Is there any possibility of actually having a relationship with him?
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Most Helpful Girl
how romantic... although he's a dickhead, too, as he cheated on his girlfriend with you. why exactly are you interested now and weren't before? i mean, you always knew he was a nice guy. Im just asking because i would tell you to follow your heart, but only if you are sure, that it isn't just because you want him as you can't have him.