On the other hand I feel like girls are very hesitant on accepting their fault in a situation and would go lengths to make a guy feel guilty by spinning everything a guy says with a negative spin even though that wasn't the intent.
Sorry if none of this makes sense. I'm just ranting without providing anything specific. I'm just frustrated because my ex broke up with me without reason. Yet stating I'm a guy she could see herself with long-term. Kind of getting mixed messages here. She wants me in her life but doesn't want to date me right now.
Feels like she's holding onto me til she finds something better, if not I'm the fall back option.
I know I'm better than what I'm getting from her, yet I genuinely care about this girl.
Am I completely missing a point here?
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I will admit I'm wrong... reluctantly, but will admit it regardless.
They don't want to take responsibility or feel bad for what they've done. They'd rather try to pass the blame and make themselves feel better about it. Also, pretty disrespectful.
You're missing the fact that you're on "her hook". Time to disconnect yourself and move on.
Remember how she makes you feel in this very moment. Angry, confused, sad.
DON'T let her come back, no matter what. Or it'll be a repeat.
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