Please give me your opinion and what you would do. How should I bring it to my moms attention. How do I tell her and him. Both at the same time? This is killing me in the inside. My parents have 4 children including me. two 14 year olds a 17 year old and me.
Most Helpful Guy
yikes. this is a tough one. a few options
1. just tell your mother. explain that you saw some messages your father was sending and then show her the messages and let her take it from there
2. leave your device up with the messages you found in a situation where your mother would stumble on it... He mom can you check my phone to see if i have a missed call? knowing that hte messages are left on there
3. talk to a family member or family friend who you feel you can trust and confide in for advice
ultimately your mom deserves to know so i think finding a way to tell her is the best course of action
Most Helpful Girl
TALK TO YOUR DAD, TALK HIM through THIS, AND LET HIM THAT YOU KNOW, TELLING YOUR MUM AND EXPOSING YOUR DAD MIGHT AND WILL CAUSE BIG ISSUES, AND MAY LEAD TO DIVORCE, ITS NOT WORTH IT, TALK TO HIM, AND TELL HIM IF YOU DONT TELL MUM YOU WILL LEAVE ME NO CHANCE BUT TO TELL HER MYSELF. THINK ABOUT YOUR SIBLINGS AND YOUR FAMILY BOND BEFORE YOU DO ANYTHING, EVERYTHING IS ON THE STAKE, I've BEEN THERE MULTIPLE TIMES, IM JUST SAYING, YOU NEED TO DISCUSS THIS WITH YOUR 17 YR OLD SIBLING, BUT NOT THE 14 YR OLD, I HOPE EVERYTHING GOES WELL!!!